I’m Nikki Lewis.
A self-love and self-care creator, advocate, speaker, writer —here to remind women that softness is not weakness—it’s a sacred strength.
Born and raised in the vibrant heart of New York City, I’m rooted in the richness of my Afro-Caribbean heritage, blending Cuban, Brazilian, and Bahamian traditions that have shaped the rhythm, warmth, and spirit I carry. From culture to creativity, I’ve always been drawn to what feels soulful and expressive.
As the youngest of three, I often found myself in my own world—quiet, imaginative, and deeply reflective. I learned early on how to navigate life on my own, and over time, that independence became both my protection and my teacher.
Like many women, my path hasn’t been easy.
There were seasons that felt heavy and lonely. Times when I questioned my worth. Times when the weight of being “strong” wore me down. But even in those chapters, grace was working behind the scenes.
Through healing, faith, therapy, and the wisdom of women who came before me, I began to uncover what had always been within me: a quiet power, a resilient spirit, and a softness I no longer needed to hide.
A pivotal moment in my journey came through the final conversations I shared with my grandmother—her words became a mirror, showing me not just who I had been, but who I could become. She reminded me of my light, and in doing so, helped me begin to believe in it for myself.
It’s not about being perfect, polished, or constantly “on.” It’s about choosing presence over pressure. Peace over performance. Wholeness over hustle.
Whether I’m writing, speaking, or building something beautiful for my community, my mission is clear:
To hold space for softness.
To speak truth with tenderness.
And to help women rise with grace, not grind.
If you’re in a season of becoming, or simply looking for a soft place to land—you belong here.
Welcome.
Self-love is my strength. Self-care is my method.
You are allowed to take up soft, sacred space.
You are allowed to bloom slowly.
You are allowed to be faithful and still figuring it out.
Here, I share notes from the journey—reflections, journal entries, prayers, petals, and the things God is still teaching me.
If you’re in your unfolding season—welcome.
You’re safe here.
With love & softness,
Nikki